The men (and women) in black
Posted on 11/02/2010When Amy Fearn replaced injured referee Tony Bates for the last 20 minutes of Coventry's 1-0 victory over Nottingham Forest, it a momentous occasion. Former referee Graham Poll, who received more than his fair share of abuse in his time, was full of admiration for the financial analyst from Loughborough in the Daily Mail.
Even though I have been verbally abused all over the country, I cannot imagine how tough it must be for a woman to referee a Championship football match in front of more than 18,000 fans.Supporters, when not resorting to the stereotypical shouts at the blind, useless or the product of unmarried parents, will refer to a point of difference.
I was always ‘fat’, having eaten all the pies, David Elleray was ‘bald’ and Paul Durkin was ‘ginger’.
When I spoke to people who were at the Coventry game, they told me in clearly surprised tones that Fearn did rather well. So she should, as she was there on merit, having been assessed on her refereeing ability, irrespective of gender.
The way she dealt with her two highest-profile situations — Mike Newell’s outrageous slur against her in 2006 and Tuesday’s debut when referee Tony Bates was injured — suggest she just might be good enough to reach the top — and why not?
Rarely do referees get so much good press, as in The Telegraph, former rugby professional Brian Moore, having recently completed his refereeing course, is beginning to sympathise with the man (or woman) with the whistle.
Before I arrived at the first session I wondered what sort of person would want to be a referee; derided, degraded and sometimes defiled by all and sundry; the man in the middle with no mates. Why would anyone want to do this; give up their spare time to invariably get criticised and in the case of a football referee possibly abused verbally and occasionally physically?The answer is that they are ordinary blokes, with all sorts of reasons. Some want to give a bit back to the game, others want to do it because they teach and many because they are involved in the game through their kids.
There was scant evidence of individuals so inadequate at playing that they had to take up the whistle to make up for their multiple inadequacies – the “little Hitlers”, as referees are so often caricatured. Most just want to help and in the days of government paranoia about paedophiles and other red tape, they face an increasing number of hurdles to just try to make that contribution.
Without the support of parents, coaches and particularly their governing body, a referee’s job is made tougher, to the point that it almost becomes impossible. Referees are essential and need encouraging, but that does not put them beyond criticism and, as a referee, I wholeheartedly endorse my own views.